Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Has it been proven totally false that women need to be 'in the mood' to give great a sexual performance?

'In the mood' or 'comfortable' or 'emotionally attached/fulfilled' or even attracted to the person/ in order for women (generally) to be enthusiastic about having sex or doing sexual acts. - In your opinion have there been enough anecdotal and shared experiences and exceptions to prove this totally false?Has it been proven totally false that women need to be 'in the mood' to give great a sexual performance?
It's actually been shown (I don't know the citation - sorry), that women get in the mood by doing the deed, even when they don't really feel like it. So yes, it has been proven false.Has it been proven totally false that women need to be 'in the mood' to give great a sexual performance?
As in my answer to why women read romance or harlequin romance is that they need context in a sexual encounter. Males have duality and are capable of both. As women are given to securing a pair bond this mood, comfort,attached or attracted feeling of which you speak shows that a male is committed and attached. Women need this connection in many if not all cases. A man can have sex with a strange women who's name he does not know and is otherwise a perfect stranger women don't have this ability. This goes to exemplify the importance of a pair bond to women. Again men are capable and desire both.


';So your saying no women have one night stands?';


No I'm saying women need relational context in this encounter.
Yes.





Happy now? haha =o)





'In the mood' just means into the sex, or into whatever someone believes will come from the sex, it doesn't at all just mean a fulfillment of mutual love and commitment.





Here's the thing, you KNOW many women like money, you know it turns many women on, you know it leads many to have sex, enthusiastically even. You seem to want this more than anything in the world. Why are you not getting more money so you can live your dream?





Or do you just need to hear every other day that there are many women out there who just want money and a man with a really stellar career and social status?





It's true, kay?





Move on a little, maybe? Hmm? =o)
It is a biological fact that women perceive sex in a different light than men. Men regard sex as an important part life. Women on the other hand tend to prioritise aspects of their life. I'm not saying men do not do this also, but women put more emphasis to this factor. Therefore, sex is sometimes ';graded'; as less important at times- hence the phrase '; I'm not in the mood'; .
Wow, that's verging on justifying forced sex. Creepy beyond words. So you are saying that a woman who is uncomfortable with sex should be giving a sex performance, and you have no concern for her feelings on the subject? This is what leads to date rapists and sociopathic johns.
';A man can have sex with a strange women who's name he does not know and is otherwise a perfect stranger women don't have this ability';.





I disagree.


So your saying no women have one night stands?
Having trouble getting some Tommy? You might be ugly - that's probably in your study as well.
Or maybe they could just be fairly compensated too.
I have to be in the mood. It doesn't take much but I have to want it. So I guess I'm proving your statement false.
Sounds like the words of a sexually frustrated man to me.

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