Friday, February 12, 2010

True or False: You don't need morals when you're single, only when you're married?

What exactly makes cheating ';cheating'; ladies.





Who made those rules about marriage that you can't take a side lover?True or False: You don't need morals when you're single, only when you're married?
you need to answer to yourself no matter if you are married or single. If you even think it maybe wrong then it probably is.





Cheating by my definition is: anything you do outside of your committed relationship that your partner would not be happy about. Anything that you feel that you have to hide from them. It does not matter if it is physical, texeing, online, phone, etc. If you have to hide it and if the person you have made a comitment to does not know about it and you feel you have to hide it from them you are cheating.True or False: You don't need morals when you're single, only when you're married?
You're missing the point! When you take a lover, your marriage is done!! It might not end right on that day, but it will end!! It's not about morals!! People who have affairs aren't immoral; they can be good people in all respects...but too cowardly or selfish to face that their partner isn't doing it for them anymore; or too cowardly to admit they want to play the field (have lots of casual partners). If you aren't ready or able to commit to one person, since that's what marriage is (committing to one person) logically you should not marry. And if you marry and find you are no longer able to remain committed to that one person, logically you should tell them the truth and cut them free...because maybe they want someone faithful and the longer you hold onto them the further you're pushing happiness away from them. The rules for marriage are in the vows...part of the vows are that you put aside all others. Many make the vow, few can keep it. This is why I think marriage is unrealistic and for dreamers...people who are big on talk, while all too often their words turn out to be about as hollow as a cheap chocolate Easter Bunny. Realistic people wouldn't make promises they know they might not be able to keep!!!
well what would be the point of being married if you are going to have ';side lovers';? isnt the whole idea behind marriage to have that one person for the rest of your life? im pretty sure thats why people get married... besides imagine the outbreak of STD's if everyone slept around constantly! lol
False....people married or single need morals.





It's the difference between having respect for yourself.....and having no respect for yourself.
the vows that married couples take changes the rules but if your single what vow did you take, none so just be careful with your body.
If you want more than one lover then don't get married...and you should always have morals regardless if you are married or single.
False. You should have morals no matter what. The rules...common sense. Don't do unto others.
everybody has some type of morals; those are just F***ed up ones
Lying is cheating.





Who made the rules???? The two people that got married.
well it should be okay with the both of u and it does tend to spread disease.

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